Start a Breakup and Relationship-Transition Concierge

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   Define the service as respectful, consensual help

   You coach a person who has already decided to end their relationship: you help them get honest, kind, and clear, and you handle the practical untangling. You never deliver the message for them behind their partner's back, never deceive or manipulate the other person, and never help anyone harass, stalk, or punish an ex. Put these lines in writing on your site and in your agreement; the whole business rests on being the decent option, not the sneaky one.

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   Know exactly when to refer to a professional

   If there is any sign of abuse, safety risk, or a partner who may react dangerously, your job is to point them to a domestic violence hotline and safety planning resources, not to coach a confrontation. Anything involving custody, shared assets, marriage, or a lease is a lawyer's territory, and mental health crisis is a therapist's. Keep a short referral list ready and use it early; knowing your limits is what makes you trustworthy and keeps you legal.

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   Build the coaching arc

   A first session to understand the relationship and what a respectful ending looks like, a session to write and rehearse what they will actually say (in their voice, honest but not cruel), and a follow-up for the aftermath. Practice the conversation out loud with them, prepare them for the likely responses, and help them hold a boundary kindly. The rehearsal is the product; most people freeze because they have never said the words before.

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   Add the logistics layer

   Returning belongings without drama, splitting shared subscriptions and accounts, coordinating a move-out timeline, drafting a clear and calm closure message when a live talk is not safe or possible, and planning the first hard week alone. This practical untangling is dreaded and tedious, and taking it off their plate is worth real money on top of the coaching.

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   Price in clear packages

   A single strategy-and-rehearsal session ($100 to $250), a full transition package spanning the conversation and the logistics ($400 to $1,200), and optional after-care check-ins. Publish your prices and your boundaries together so people self-select into the ethical version of this help.

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   Reach people through trusted referrers and honest content

   Therapists with waitlists, divorce mediators and coaches, and content that models how to end things like an adult (short, warm, non-sensational) build the caseload. Never market with revenge angles or 'get them back' promises; your brand is dignity, and that is exactly why people will trust you with the most vulnerable moment of their year.

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Best for: Steady, compassionate people who are good at hard conversations and clear logistics

Not for: Anyone who would help a client deceive or hurt someone, and anyone who would blur coaching into therapy. The work must stay consensual, respectful, and honest.